Emdad Rahman: The Osmani Trust, a youth and community organization in Tower Hamlets, recently facilitated a seminar titled, “Addressing Complex and Interlocking Needs” for children and young people.
Isobel Cattermole – Corporate Director of LBTH Schools, Children and Familes expressed great pleasure at the facilities for women at the Osmani Centre and in her keynote speech said: “All our organisations must come together. Our children are dear, they are an indictment on us and the responsibility falls on all of us here to ensure they have the best possible support in life.”
Steve Matthews, the chief executive of the Mentoring and Befriending Foundation was one of the key guest speakers. He spoke passionately about the benefits of mentoring: “Mentoring is an intervention working alongside other interventions.”
Mathews described Osmani Trust’s SHAATHI mentoring project as an example of good practice. He further said: “Lots of mentoring happens informally. It’s about the structures in one’s life and mentoring is an intervention to negative issues being faced by a person.
“In the UK, 20% of volunteering is around mentoring. Mentoring is not coaching; it helps individuals take responsibilities in their lives through motivation, inspiration, guidance and being role models. A little time every week can make a huge difference to a person’s life. ”
Shafiur Rahman, expert on Islamic culture elaborated on research carried out primarily by the Muslim Youth Helpline (MYH). The Islamic studies teacher informed participants that in 2001, there were 1.6 million Muslims living in the UK, compared to a total population of 58.7 million people.
Citing DWP sources, the Imam added: “Just under three-quarters of Bangladeshi and Pakistani children (73%) are living in households below the poverty line (60% of median income). This compares with under a third (31%) for children in all households.
“47% of Muslim students have experienced Islamophobia.” (FOSIS (Federation of Student Islamic Societies) survey, 2005)
It was mentioned that between 2001 and 2003 there was a 302% increase in ‘stop and search’ incidents among Asian people, compared with 118% among white people. (Home Office, Statistics on Race and the Criminal Justice System, 2004).
The Imam also believes that BAME / Muslim communities have had little or no role in research, policy making or resource allocation and pointed towards a survey of 136 Muslim young people, undertaken to research their opinions on the Government’s Green paper’ Youth Matters’ (2005) which reported that 40% of the 51 Muslim young people responding to the online survey considered the standard of service provision in their local area to be ‘poor’, with 15% describing it as ‘terrible’.
Eileen McGeeney is the deputy Manager of the Outreach Team at Norman Grove, which is part of the Adolescent Recourse Centre. She said: “We have been working with around 30 young people and their families in the last six months. 50% of these referrals are for Bangladeshi families. At present we are working with 12 young women and 6 young men. Their ages are from 13 to 16yrs.
“The remainder referrals are for Black, Mixed Parentage, White families. During the last six months there has been a significant increase in the number of Bangladeshi young women being referred.”
McGeeney presented delegates with a list of what constitutes inappropriate male relationships. These relationships are part of the Grooming Process resulting from dependency and coercion. Vulnerable young people are bought items such as new clothes or top up for phones. Eventually in return the perpetrators ask for sexual favours in return. Thus a significant number of young people get deeper into these relationships and become sexually exploited, often through introduction to other men.
Carly Adams, Children’s Services Practitioner, Street Matters. Adams spoke about the sexual exploitation of young people.
The definition of sexual exploitation is when a young person who is under 18 years old is persuaded, forced, tricked, bribed, threatened or made to take part, in a sexual act and they are given something in return for it, whether they want it or not. A sexual act includes vaginal or anal sex, oral sex (headz, bocat), hand job, masturbation, posing for pictures, stripping, dancing.
Adams used the National Working Group 2008 Safeguarding Children and Young People From Sexual Exploitation DCSF 2009 guidance to describe sexual exploitation: “sexual exploitation of children and young people under 18 involves exploitative situations, contexts and relationships where young people (or a third person or persons) receive ‘something’ (e.g. food, accommodation, drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, affection, gifts, money) as a result of them performing, and/or another or others performing on them, sexual activities.”
The ‘something in return’ could be money, a phone, nice clothes, cigarettes/alcohol/other drugs, protection, gang membership, accommodation, food, affection.
Victims of sexual exploitation are often led to believe that they are consenting because they are in relationships or are friends with those exploiting them. The perpetrators might be only slightly older in age and will have spent a long time grooming them and building up their trust. Consent is often constrained
And the young person thinks they are giving consent but it may be under duress, or based on false information or threats. As a result the victim is very likely to have issues with trust. Risks include rape/assault allegations, being seen in ‘hotspot’ areas, injuries, STIs/ pregnancies, self harming, older boyfriends, substance use, DV in family.
Signs to look out for include new clothes, mobiles, unexplained money or gifts, being seen in hotspot areas, getting in cars with groups of men.
Sexual exploitation: Key factors in Tower Hamlets
· 22% under 15 years of age
· 34% 20-34 years
· Very deprived area of the UK
· Poor, overcrowded housing
· High incidence of gang violence
· Growing alcohol and substance use amongst young Muslims
Abu Mumin, Senior Manager of Osmani Trust spoke of the benefits that Osmani Trust had bought to the community: “Who can forget the days when we used to operate from a leaking portable cabin? When it rained outside, it rained outside, but we did some of our greatest work and since then thousands of young people have passed through our doors.”
Syed Tohel Ahmed, director of Nafas spoke about how drugs and alcohol directly affects children and young people: In England and Wales, 3% of children live with drug abusing parents. In Scotland it is 5%. For some children this is seen as normal everyday life.
In England almost 1.3 million children live with a parent who is harmfully alcohol dependent. On a local level, there are 3,795 crack and opiate users in Tower Hamlets. We often underestimate in our analysis – the child does see the animal in the room.”
Rahima Khan is a mentee of the project. She spoke with pride about her relationship with her mentor Nurjahan: “She’s like an older sister, a guide, she drives me mad. Nurjahan helped me feel happy about myself and was tremendous in helping me get over the loss of my mother. Working with her has raised my self esteem and I am now confident enough to volunteer mentor others who need support.”
Mentor Rugena Begum added that she had joined to bolster her experiences and CV for a short period but the satisfaction she received from metoring has seen her stay with the project for 4 years: “It’s important to give young people a voice, space and an outlet.”
Shaathi Mentoring Programme is a project of the Osmani Trust. The Trust is a youth and community organisation that offers a wide range of community, health and sports initiatives tailored to the needs of the community. It aims to provide a holistic service, which helps people, particularly those living in disadvantaged urban communities to re-engage with mainstream society and improve their quality of life.
The mentoring project implements an early intervention approach in working with disadvantaged and deprived members of the BAME (Black, Asian, Minority and Ethnic) communities. Many of our clients are identified as being at risk of becoming excluded from mainstream services such as education, training and employment or are engaged in anti-social behaviour or known to the criminal justice system. The project seeks to enable and support clients to overcome different challenges and barriers in their day to day lives. Mentors are matched to clients who need and want a caring and responsible adult who will steer and guide them back on track.The mentoring project works with and alongside mainstream services such as School’s, PRU’s, Youth and Connexions Services, Social Services, Youth Offending Teams, Probations Services, NHS and other agencies.
The project acquired the Approved Provider Standard (APS) which is a nationally recognised Accreditation provided by the Mentoring and Befriending Foundation in 2006 and was re-accredited in 2009. Shaathi has also attained the Investing in Volunteers (IIV) status in 2008.